The week since my trip to London has ended up being very low demand. I’ve mainly just slept and watched tv on my laptop. It’s not felt great, but I suppose I just needed the downtime. I’ve avoided all my household tasks, including ordering in food a few times. It’s so useful to be able to understand these periods in the framework of demand capacity and anxiety.
I definitely experience the mood fluctuation component of PDA, on top of my bipolar mood swings, and trauma related emotional flashbacks. PDA seems to mean that if I feel lonely, it’s extremely lonely, down is extremely down, excited is extremely excited. I don’t seem to do ‘small’ emotions. Recently I’ve been more mindful of those swings, noticing when they come to an end and when they shift. It’s helping me notice that the bad times aren’t permanent, and that it’s all cyclical. I seem to swing between productive, energised times with more demand capacity… and low energy, low mood times where I easily feel overwhelmed with lots of demand anxiety. It’s something that my previous bipolar medication, sodium valproate, really flattened and looking back I can see how zombified I was on that med – it doesn’t feel surprising that I pulled myself off of it really. Risperidone seems like a much better med for preventing psychotic mania, whilst not preventing my natural emotions.
Sometimes “excessive mood swings” are really difficult to cope with, especially the ways low moods feel so very low. It’s infinitely preferable to experience them though, than to be completely flat.
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