PDA fae

Tag: disability

  • What if..

    I’m not actually autistic?

    What if PDA is it’s own neurotype?

    What if it’s an epigenetic related neurotype – i.e. rooted in neurodivergent trauma, but inheritable mainly through the mother line?

    What if being a super social PDAer actually makes you allistic, but also highly neurodivergent?

    What if PDA can be researched enough to prove this? What if I’m not able to, when I know so much about my own hypotheses, methods I’d use..

    What if there’s a point I have to give up, and hand over my passion to another researcher because I’m not able?

    What if, though, it does all work out? What if I can work this hard? What if I can become a truly high flying PDAer – with all my disabled complexity?

    What if, what if, what if?

    One’s thing for sure, I agree with that Newcastle Uni research that the PDA brain has an “intolerance for uncertainty”!

  • Ambitions, are they possible?

    The town I’m currently in had a volunteering festival today. For me to be accepted onto the courses I’m thinking about for post-graduate study, I really need to be doing this sort of thing.

    That said, is it even going to be possible for me to undertake post graduate study?

    I am going to be able to maintain volunteering commitments?

    Will I remain well enough? Will it be too much for a demand? Will it become too difficult to reach locations, given that I can’t drive? Do I remotely have the capacity to do any of this?

    And how do I have a meaningful life if I can’t? How do I avoid sinking into depression and feeling like a failure?

    Sigh. I really hate being disabled sometimes.