I experienced a lot of demand anxiety today. I had been very disconnected from my demand anxiety after the stress of nearly entering supporting accommodation, and the results of that – which were very serious and quite triggering, so I will not be detailing that here.
I was sat in the library, around other people, which in itself helped me enter ‘doing things mode’. Watching others apply themselves seems to help switch me into that mode, much like wearing shoes and proper day clothes is known to help some PDAers. Initially I journalled after thinking ‘I have the freedom to write whatever I choose’ – a similar approach to that taken by Dr Gloria Dura Vila in my assessment.
I then thought of the question in the title, and started brainstorming anything I’d choose to do if it were possible. My first answer was ‘run away to the arctic’ which wasn’t acheiveable, but did make me feel better. As I wrote more, I generated thoughts that I could act on, such as create a research plan, and write a short story.
I think this will be really good for times when I’m very bored, but my brain is saying ‘No!’ to everything, or days like today, where I really want to be doing, but everything feels very anxiety inducing. Something about starting with the impossible, and then teasing out the possible really helps, and focusing on free choice is key.
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