Hello. Welcome to this little corner of the internet, a blog about life with Pathological Demand Avoidance (or alternatively, Pervasive Drive for Autonomy). PDA is a profile on the autism spectrum. We avoid the ‘everyday demands of life’, and it’s entirely possible this entire blog will become a demand for me, but we’ll see.
For as long as this isn’t too demanding, I’ll be covering my journey as a PDAer, including my trauma and the reasons I resorted to fawning as my primary strategy, dealing with bipolar type 1, my recovery from both, and my queerness. As I discover things that help, I’ll share them as suggestions you can consider if you wish.
Because of the sensitive nature of my content, I will be remaining anonymous. You may refer to me as PlumFae.
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